2.27.2014

Sometimes you just gotta let it go...

So I kept imagining that someday I would find a spare 5-8 hours and just update my blog all at once. The more time went on, the more monumental the task became. So, I'm just going to wash out the last few months in one simple list. A lot of this stuff has been life changing, monumental kind of stuff...but alas, it's getting a bullet point for posterity's sake.
  • Brandon and I went to Berlin. Touched the wall, the wall touched us.
  • We celebrated 12 years of marriage.
  • I turned 33, Brandon turned 34.
  • Had amazing holidays full of lots of fun, friends and family.
  • We lost one of our best friends, Mike Schenker, to a very fast growing brain cancer. He was diagnosed in October and passed away 3 days before Christmas. We miss him very much and I still wear my "tough like mike" bracelet everyday. Don't know when I will take that puppy off...The primary kids sang at his funeral and I was able to play the piano to accompany them and my friend Brityn who also sang. It meant a lot to me to be apart of his service.
  • I started going to boot camp and I love it! Brandon and I also started P90X3
  • Abigail got all A's, was student of the month for school and for dance, and sung a little solo/duet thing at 2nd grade academic night.
  • Speaking of Abigail...she has almost no teeth. They all fell out at once.
  • Brandon had shoulder surgery and we decided to take his recovery on the road to Disneyland. Even though he was heavily medicated we still had fun and were able to see our friends the Smiths there.
  • Brandon won the Top Performer award for his firm and also won the 2014 Rising Star Award from the national publication, Super Lawyer.
  • We had a very nice Halloween. Brandon actually dressed up like Jimi Hendrix for the Trunk or Treat and Abigail was a "Nature Fairy." (Basically we pinned a million pieces of twigs and artificial flowers into her hair and gave her wings.) Being room mom, I got to run the class party and I loved it. I was also able to run the Christmas class party- this is a really fun group of kids Abigail has!
So now for something a little bit more present. Abigail has recently fallen in love with poetry and last night she wrote me three poems. I am going to record them here...


 
The Haiku
 
I love my mom, yes!
Oh Yippie I do, yes yes!
Can you guess how much?
 
 
The "Deamontae" (Apparently it is a diamond shaped poem. She's in 2nd grade and she already knows more than I do about lyrical writing. By 3rd grade she'll have passed me in math.)
 
Mom!
Smart, Kind
Read, Cook, Organize
I love my mom!
Exercise, Decorate, Celebrate
Caring, Loving
Mom!
 
 
Now for the finale, a traditional poem
 
MOM
My mom, I love my mom.
She's the greatest mom ever.
She'd still be great if she wore shorts with a sweater.
She'll always be mine.
I'll share her with dad only- oh fine!
My Mom, I love my mom
Even in a sweater
She couldn't get any better
 
 
....pretty much the best time of my life.


1.19.2014

Roma part Due

Rome is my favorite city to explore. I loved hoofing it around this place. We took the metro as close as we could to the Borghesse garden/museum, but it still wasn't very close. We were able to explore the ancient wall, grab a pastry at a breakfast counter with a bunch of Italians, and list to a street accordion player all on the way to the museum. And at the museum....
I fell in love with art, especially Bernini, but I totally get art now. Not that I haven't always enjoyed art and enjoyed my time in Paris last year with all of that fantastic artsy-fartsy-ness, but I totally understood that art tells the story of the world this time. In Italy you're able to move from ancient-medieval-renaissance-up until today. I came home wanting to read about art history....haven't done it yet...but I will!
Another one of our delightful walks was across the Tiber in a neighborhood called Trastavere. We visited a great little church called St. Theresa's where a delightful old Italian man told us we needed to get married there and then go make babies. Our Italian was too limited to explain we have been married 12 years and have already procreated thank-you-very-much, but I loved the conversation all the same! At St. Theresa's there was a nun playing the organ and we discovered for 2 euro you can go down into the remains of her home. The church was built atop her house and the house is from 300 AD.
She had pretty nice digs, right? She was a wealthy roman who was martyred for holding Christian services in her home. They tried killing her by suffocating her with steam (seriously?) and she suffered with their attempts for 3 whole days. They eventually just cut off her head.
My favorite part of the entire trip happened on a day it rained. We were planning on going to the super large catacombs built outside the city along the Appian way. We only had one day left in the city and that was the day it decided to rain. The Appian way is a fair jaunt out of town and apparently they close the catacombs if they flood. We were nervous to go that far out and not be able to see them. We discovered an even older, smaller, more intimate catacomb within the city limits of Rome. We took a bus to a neighborhood where real Italians live, speaking Italian, and never really seeing tourists. The catacombs are under a church nearby. When we got to the church it was staffed entirely by Italian speaking nuns. There were a few other english speakers there, including one who had done her masters in art history in Florence, so we formed a group and voted her our translator.
 
This was such a special experience....being led through the dark catacombs by a little old Italian nun was surreal. But what really stood out to me was how peaceful this place is. Most of the bodies had been moved, but there will still several children and babies there behind their clay tombstones. The bodies buried here were from 80ad...so people who had heard Peter preach, the original converts if you will. I was struck by how much early Christianity and my faith (I'm Mormon) have in common. There was art on the walls in the catacombs had some things I've only ever seen in the temple. It was amazing to see the connection!
 
We left the next day for the Amalfi coast...next time I blog I'll do Amalfi/Berlin!




1.16.2014

When in Rome...

I am both sad and glad that I waited as long as I have to blog about our trip to Italy and Germany. Sad because I have undoubtedly forgotten many details of my favorite trip I have ever been on. The silver lining? I would have given a long, historical narrative if the trip was any fresher. All that history and significance was so overwhelming that I had a hard time answering "How was your trip?" without diving into a long history of Romulus, Remus, and the Vestal Virgins.

We left out of LA the beginning of October. We had a direct flight from LA to Berlin. That was a long, painful flight. We flew Air Berlin which we never have before. We had heard horror story after horror story of tight seats, nasty food, movies not working and lots of lost luggage. Because we were prepared for the worst we ended up pleasantly surprised. Not that I ever want to fly them again, but it wasn't the Gitmo style torture I was expecting. I stretched out on Brandon and was decently comfortable for the 12 hour flight.

When we landed at Tegel (Berlin) we were exhausted. We had a 4 hour layover before we got on another plane to Rome. Tegel airport is basically a converted Eastern European bus stop. Before Brandon and I went on this trip, we had looked up Tegel to see if it's some place we could get some good rest and this is what we found:
 
We imagined ourselves as the shoeless guy in the middle, face down on the linoleum. Tegel was looking pretty bleak, but we were so tired we somehow managed to catch some sleep on bumpy metal chairs. We boarded our flight to Rome and landed in Rome at sunset (the airport is about 20 miles outside of the city). We took the Leonardo Express Train into town and saw lots of laundry flapping and graffiti walls. We arrived at Termini and headed out to try and find our hotel on foot. Rome is not the easiest city to navigate, but we did a decent job and only got semi-lost once. When we got to our hotel it was truly Italian! I love staying in places that feel like the country you're in. It was tiny and tacky. I loved it! Here's a picture of the bathroom. The shower was so small that if you dropped your razor or soap you had to step out of the shower to bend down and get it.
 
 
That night we went out and did Rick Steves' walking tour of Rome. First, we jumped on the bus (Rome's busses are on the honor system. You're supposed to have a pass but there isn't anyone taking your ticket on the bus. Occasionally an inspector will get on the bus and check for passes and give you a hefty find if you are ticketless. We couldn't find where they sold tickets late at night, so we just hoped on a bus and felt like criminals). On the bus ride I was really nervous about Rome. It's chaotic, full and extremely energetic. We ate dinner outside next to the ruins of an ancient apartment building and then did our walking tour of Rome. Once I had some food in my belly and had seen a few sights, I absolutely fell madly, deeply in amore with Rome. I loved all the squares full of people strolling, the music, the food. It is incredible! We made it back to our hotel, slept well and got up the next day for Ancient Rome. Because I can't remember the chronology of our trip any more, here are a few highlights:
 




Paletine Hill (I am positive I am butchering Latin and Italian spellings). These are the ruins of the huge palace that several of the Roman emperors lived. I was able to stand in the spot where they had their throne room and boss Brandon around. Felt really natural.

 
The forum was an absolute treasure trove of historical fun. Here is a temple. As you can tell, we're well below the entrance taking this picture. During Michelangelo's day this temple was used as a church and ground level was actually where the door is. So basically the Forum is really well preserved because it was buried and neglected. 

Julius Caesar was drug from where he was stabbed by the Senate through town to be burned here, on this exact spot. Apparently there are always flowers on top of this spot. And in front of this mound of ruin is a little spot where you can see Brandon preparing to give a speech to the ancient Romans. This is the exact spot Mark Antony gave Caesar's eulogy..."friends, romans, country men...lend me your ears."

 
 
We were hardcore Catholics in Rome and had a great time doing it. Here is the first legal Christian church built within the city of Rome. It is on the very edge of the ancient wall and it was built by the holy Roman emperor Constantine. It was magnificent. I know not everyone loves Rome and that a common complaint is "if you've seen one cathedral, you've seen them all." We didn't feel that way at all. Each had it's own story, relics, and history. Like this one...they took the doors off the Roman senate and used them for the doors of the church. You can touch the doors of the Senate! Thousands of years old, some of the most famous and important people of all time walked through them...and so you can you! And we did!


We went into the Capuchin Crypts where they artfully decorate with their dead. It was not. my. favorite. Above the crypt is a museum where you learn about the friars and their history of self flagellation to bring themselves closer to Christ. A little creepy to me.


 
 They always say how many people die at the Coliseum. It seems to me that most of those deaths happened going up and down the stairs. They invented concrete and representative government, you think they would have gotten to railings!
 
 
The Scala Santa. This holy site are the stairs from Pontus Pilates' home. Theoretically, the same Jesus walked up on his way to be given the news he was to be crucified. People have been going up these stairs on their knees, kissing the top step, for literally thousands of years. And you better believe we did too! I was sandwiched between a priest and a nun. Loved every minute of it! 

 

These stairs were crazy and designed by Michelangelo. We didn't realize, but if we had walked 30 seconds past these stairs, there is a much easier way to get up the hill. We also didn't know that when we got to the top we would interrupt a mass that was going on in the church by asking in our broken Italian, "Do've Museo?" Oh tourists...
We did the Vatican and all its splendor. We got super lucky and snuck out of the Sistine chapel with a tour group. We just "blended" in and didn't have to wait to get into St. Peter's Basilica.
I loved Rome at night. I loved waiting outside of cozy restaurants with stray cats and the sounds of sirens always in the background. I loved cramming on tight metros and getting lost in the little alleys.
Made by Jewish slaves after the Roman's sacked Jerusalem. They destroyed their temple, took their people, and took the rubble from the temple and made a "welcome to rome" arch. 



Sheesh, I still haven't covered all of Rome, Pompeii, the Amalfi coast or Berlin! And now all I want to do is stop blogging about it and go back! 











 






 

10.30.2013

Backing This Bus Up...the rest of September

I don't know where the pictures of September went...they aren't on my phone...but here is what we were up to...

  • This is a gross way to start, but Abby had warts, and she was ANGRY about it. We went into the podiatrist for our second treatment (now, our podiatrist is a GREAT guy, he even offered Abby his son for her to marry at one point) and she flat out asked me on our way it, "Mom, if he has to scrape my foot, can I kick him in the face?"
  • We had our primary program, and all that entails for me. It was a little extra crazy since my secretary (who I cannot function without) was a ticking time bomb at 9+ months pregnant the day of the program and my pianist was on bed rest. But honestly? Best program in my 4 years as primary president. And primary idol was SO fun this year! I looked ridiculous and embarrassed myself by singing a solo into an inflatable microphone, but I had a great time doing it!
  • We went to a really swanky fundraiser for Opportunity Village. Most fundraisers I attend are hard work. This one, I looked great and they fed me. I could get used to upper echelon fundraising!
  • Abigail started ballet in addition to hip hop. She's taking it all really seriously and I am very proud of her.
  • Did I post about her first day of school? Probably not :) It went really well and she's loving Ms. Moen. Her quote from the first week, "I looked around mom, and I have no competition this year." She's a confident one, that Abigail!

Backing this bus up...Garage Sale

Boy Howdy, do I have a lot to cover! Today is my birthday and as a special treat to myself, I am taking this morning (even though there are dishes in the sink) and catching up on my blogging in between responding to sweet birthday texts and emails.

We've had such a great September/October, it can't NOT be recorded for Posterity's Sake! September mainly orbited around one huge event- a charity garage sale that my friend Brityn and my sister-in-law Kari helped me run and plan. We wanted to help raise some money for our friend Aspen who is battling breast and brain cancer. We thought we would do a little neighborhood garage sale, but when we saw the level of support we got from our friends and family, we knew it was turning in to a much bigger event. It ended up being a massive event held in a corporate parking lot with games, snow cones, balloon animals. It was great fun and we raised over $6,000.

We had SO many kind, loving, generous people helping us. While it was a lot of hard work, it was an absolute joy to be a part of. I love seeing people at their best, it makes me a much better person than I would otherwise be.

A surprise huge success was the bake sale, treats, and games we had accompany the event. We had some serious saleswomen working that table and the treats donated were all beautiful. We looked like a high end bakery.

The amount of people willing to get up at 7am on a Saturday and volunteer their time was just incredible. 

Our good friends the Holts loaned us Tim's amazing balloon animals/juggling skills. I am sure they are regretting the day they ever met me since I seem to think every function I run is made better by balloon animals....but, isn't it? I mean look at that hat! You know you want to wear it!

I am so happy at this stage of my life. I have such incredible friends and I am so blessed to be able to work alongside them so well. Who would have thought, given my torrid history of irresponsible (yet fun-loving) shenanigans I would turn out so well! And be worthy of such awesome and illustrious associations! Above is my friend Brityn, who coincidentally, just knocked on my door and sang me a birthday song and gave me flowers.

I was super grateful to my work, Capstone Capital, for sponsoring this event and letting me work on it while there. They paid for all the printing costs, security, and even bought me a sub sandwich!

While it was a ton of fun and super rewarding, it was a LOT of work. This shot was taken at 5:00am...(Max and I had been there since 4:30)

Here is the event in full swing! A HUGE thank you to all my friends who donated, attended and volunteered. It's such a good feeling to be able to help someone you care about and I really appreciate all the time and energy given by others to accomplish it!

While the late night mom meetings in our pajamas are over for now, knowing Brityn, Kari and I there will be more projects in the future and I whole heartedly look forward to them!

8.28.2013

Pigs must be flying

The impossible has been done! The Leavitts have camped. Hell is freezing over, the fat lady is singing, pigs are flying...because we actually had a great time. Our good friends, the Smiths, convinced us that a weekend at Big Bear Lake California would be a good time. We agreed and immediately started looking at cabin sites and cost. We didn't realize they had TENTS in mind. When we pulled up to the camp site, I had that feeling like you're about to be wheeled into surgery all while my buddy Brityn was literally squealing and clapping with glee.

Our trip down was great fun. We talked, laughed, popped open cans of pringles and watched Pete's Dragon in their super overflowing, packed-to-the-rafters with pillows Sequoia.


This picture is of Abigail (7) with sweet camping hair and her friend Madeline (4) emerging from the packed car. When we pulled into the little town of Big Bear, we stopped at Thelma's for lunch. We are out on the back patio with wild flowers. Max had a chicken fried steak that was about the size and dimensions of his forearm and deeply regretted it later.

After, we drove to our camp site, passing a ridiculously grouchy lady working for the forest service. At camp, I was so confused and lost about camping. But the Smiths literally took care of everything. Brandon and I coined the phrase, "Concierge Camping" and also regularly called it "Glamping." They made every meal and every activity so painless with all their preplanning and effort. We had just enough of a taste of camping (i.e. rolling out a sleeping bag, setting up a tent).

 

After camp was set up, we hiked down to see the lake. Big Bear Lake is dirty and stinky, but we still had a great time. We then went to the Discovery Center and pet lots of taxidermied animals and learned a bit about Big Bear. When we came back to camp, the kids played in the water pump, we went on another hike, and Max got started making us our camp feast of pork roast, Caesar salad and rolls with homemade jam. We ate ourselves sick and then, of course, had smores.

We then put our kids to bed and stayed up late talking and watching the stars. It was so fun to plan our futures, laugh, and tell stories about the kids. We got a little too ruckus at one point and the grumpy lady had to come yell at us in her little golf cart to keep it down. When we eventually poured ourselves into our sleeping bags, Brandon and I had the most hilarious night's sleep I think we've ever had. It involved mummy bags, cots, and a late night pee run. I seriously laughed till I cried and not just because it was 3am.

The next morning the Smiths fed us omelets, fruit and bacon. We packed up camp and then headed for a super fun family hike. The hike was just right- mountainous enough to really feel like a hike but short enough we didn't have to carry the kids the whole time. We then packed back up in the car and headed down the mountain. The roads are really curvy and poor Madeline threw up in a popcorn bag and I about joined her!

On our way home, we talked and laughed some more...ate more pringles, watched The Sound of Music, and Brandon finally, after 13 years, got me to stop at the Barstow Station McDonald's that he always went to in his youth on the way to Disney. It will probably take me another 13 years to be convinced to go back.

When we got home, we showered, relaxed and got ready for the next day- which was the first day of second grade for this little cutie!
 
She has Mrs. Moen this year and we're off to a great start. She is such a wonderful kid- so kind and helpful and just good down to her core. I couldn't be more proud. On Monday we unveiled the 2013-14 Leavitt Family Theme and for posterity's sake, I shall record it here:
 
Be ye strong therefore, and let not your hands be weak: for your awork shall be rewarded.
 
It's from Chronicles and it's a good one for us. We're really busy but we want to focus on the blessings of work in our lives and how much more we are able to have and do because we work hard. It's going to be a great year!

8.19.2013

Arizona bound

Last night I rolled back into town after a quick trip to Phoenix, feeling the pseudo-hangover that comes with too much fun and the sore throat the comes with too much laughing. A dear friend of mine, Aspen, moved down to Phoenix almost a year ago. While it is always hard to let a friend move away, it was extra hard with Aspen. Primarily because she's THAT incredible and so fun, but also because she's been battling breast cancer and having a really hard time. While she has an incredible husband, two beautiful children, a lovely home and more friends than I could ever possibly keep track of, we still wanted to go down and spend some time with our friend.

The "we" in that last sentence wasn't my little family (although Brandon adores her and her husband Pete and was super sad to be left at home). The we in that sentence are Brityn (my dear friend), Kari (my sister-in-law), and Miss Sunshine (she was the former nanny for their family and she is CRAZY awesome). Brityn called Aspen to set up our trip and told her that it would only be Brityn visiting. The rest of us were a complete surprise.

We left Friday afternoon after lunch and hit the road in Brandon's Acura. We had a great ride down, laughing and listening to 90's jams that only people in their late 20's/early 30's can really appreciate- snacking on red vines, plums and trail mix. Even with this party on wheels going on, we still had time to make a plan of how we wanted to surprise her. We decided to park a little distance from their house and have Brityn, who they were expecting, to go and knock on the door. We waited 5 minutes and then sent me to the door. What a treat! She was so completely shocked and started crying at this point. 5 minutes later, the door knocks again and it's Kari! Because Kari, Brityn and I are all friends she totally didn't expect her final guest who knocked on the door 5 minutes later- Miss Sunshine! (her real name is Debbie, but I think we called her that maybe 2xs). There were lots of tears and hugs.

That night, we ate dinner together and headed off for a little Super Target run (since I forgot jammies, and that's an awkward thing not to have when you're staying at someone else's house). While Kari and Miss Sunshine distracted her, Brityn and I made a mad dash grocery run. It was so Super Market Sweep! I loved the thrill of trying to check out before I was caught. We spent the night cackling and went to bed after almost peeing ourselves watching YouTube videos. Well, everyone except Kari and I that is. We shared a room and were up till 3am. I had a great time! I feel like we walked into this sister-in-laws and friends and are walking out sisters.

We got up at 6:30 the next morning and got to work! I won't be able to do it justice and I won't be able to make it sound not cheesy, but it was like a symphony. We all went because we are friends of Aspen's, but what we didn't know is that we are an absolute dream team when it comes to putting a house in order. Kari snapped on the rubber gloves and cleaned 4,000 sq ft. to sparkling. Brityn and I cleaned out the fridge, organized the pantry, and made an absolutely ridiculous amount of food for their freezer, pantry and fridge- all healthy and full of vitamins. We ate homemade warm roasted coconut granola, carrot cranberry bran muffins, chicken noodle soup with homemade wheat noodles, roasted butternut squash soup, turkey sausage/roasted veggie lasagna, honey whole wheat French toast, and more. Their fridge is brimming with lots of fresh fruits and veggies cut up, washed, ready to use. Miss Sunshine washed kids, played with them, fixed their appliances, folded clothes and helped Kari with the house. Nobody needed to be told what to do, we were all experts in our areas and we had an incredible time. We then, of course, all had naps.

That evening, we went out just us girls and got mani/pedis and had dinner. After dinner, Kari dyed Aspen's hair a darker color so it would look fuller. Radiation and chemo have thinned it out a bit and she looks fabulous as a dark temptress! While they were playing beauty shop, I made another run (sneaky style) to Target for diapers, dishwasher soap, Ziploc bags, etc. It made me feel like Santa Clause. It was super fun.

We went to bed around midnight after another round of laughing and talking. Well, everyone but Kari and I...we clocked in around 2 am this time :) Next morning, up at 6:30 again. I made everyone breakfast and prepared their dinner for that night (since we had to leave after church) and rocked the juicer with Pete. We had a tasty time together and then headed off to church. Aspen goes to the church of Christian Science. I really liked it. It was good to be there with her and Peter and pray together for our dear friend. We had a seriously tear filled goodbye in the parking lot and left for home. No one could speak for a long time...probably because we just left our hearts behind in a hot parking lot in Arizona. Things livened up a bit when we got out a romance book on CD. We ate Carl's Jr. and book clubbed it all the way home, pausing the CD to dissect the characters and their relationships. We had some AWFUL 90 minute traffic jam that had us inching. Minus the guy we saw peeing and the girl we saw getting digging in her trunk with no pants or underwear on (Brandon's theory is that she pooped), it was nice because it gave us longer with our book.

It was one of the most beautiful weekends of my life and I learned so much. Thanks to Brandon for providing for me so well that I can go help our friends like this and for all the husbands who stayed home and wrangled the kiddos.
 
On a final note, this is Brityn getting her first pedicure ever. She has feet like mine- like we are wearing shoes made of sandpaper at all times. The sweet lady got finished scraping her callouses off and said, "Well, you just lost 2-3 pounds down here." I looked down at the pile and it was like it had snowed. I laughed mercilessly and took a picture...but she got me back. There's a super embarrassing Jamie Leavitt pedicure photo floating out there.
 
"Peace out suckers!"- Banyan Marthaler, age 4